The 9 to 5 Grind

9 to 5 – Dolly Parton, Music Video Courtesy of Dolly Parton’s Official YouTube Channel

There seems to be a negative connotation with the phrase “9 to 5 job”. This negative vibe we get when hearing “9 to 5” has been around for a few decades now. The song above came out in 1980, so the ideology that it sucks has got to be at least 40 years old. I mean, just take a look at the reasons why Andrea (random person I found with a great answer on Quora) hates the thought! If you didn’t click the link, let me summarize it for you:

  • People love freedom. Being a kinda slave 40 hours a week is not freedom!
  • 8 hours work is too much. It often involves commuting that makes these 8 hours even longer (so, your obligations last longer as you have to get to the workplace). Commuting often means peak hours and involves terrible traffic.
  • It kills your productivity, your creativity, your dreams, your aspirations, your beliefs.
  • People hate being limited, hate restrictions, hate unilaterally adopted rules they do not understand and do not accept.

Trust me when I say, she’s not the only person who feels this way! Take a look at this AskReddit thread. It’s 4+ years old now. Hundreds of people talking about their 9 to 5 jobs. The mass majority of them are just as negative, if not more so! And the select few that were positive had people commenting underneath something like “Hey man, everybody here is talking about hating their jobs okay? Get with the program!”

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All of this got me thinking… What happened? The 9 to 5 lifestyle used to be something that people would strive for. It was a way to show that you made it. You escaped the factories, the awful working conditions, the manual labor, the even longer days of work (which usually included weekends). For a time, it was the pinnacle of jobs. Let’s look at a couple pros to a 9 to 5 job:

  • You are able to avoid work accidents, and the physical toll on the body is nonexistent.
  • The hours are understood. 8 hours… 9am to 5pm… That’s a wrap. To go along with that, you’re usually guaranteed every weekend and major holidays off
  • Creating a routine for your day becomes immensely easy due to the nature of the schedule.
  • That paycheck of yours is consistent. It’ll be the same every time you check your bank account, without fail.
  • There’s guaranteed to be people around you to get know and hang out with. It’s essentially a continuation of school life. A bunch of people who are all there for a set time every day during the week.

Now, let me extend an olive branch. I get it. A monotonous routine every day, every week, every month is not for everyone. Coming into work, seeing the same people, doing the same thing day in and day out can be mentally taxing. It could feel like you’re trapped in a simulation with no end in sight. People get depressed at the thought of being stuck in a rut. I mean just look at this:

Just doing a quick check at the results when searching “9 to 5 job” and “9 to 5 job depression is the fourth result. (By the way two out of the top five results includes “meaning” and “definition”… Are we really that far gone as a society to not remember what a 9 to 5 job means? Hmmmm… I smell a topic for another day). Upon clicking on 9 to 5 job depression leads you to literal hundreds of posts, all following the same lines as what’s shown below.

Josh… You’re rambling on and on, going back and forth on the positives and negatives. Just take a look! You’ve made your way to depression… Let’s move on to the point of this post.

OK! Here’s what I’m getting at…

At the time of writing this post, I currently have a 9 to 5 job. I graduated from college and dove right into the now standard working force. Never gave it a second thought. I knew I needed a job to start paying these student loans because a degree is essential today, and this 9 to 5 job was within the field that complimented my degree. And I gotta say, I don’t mind it!

  • Yes, there are days where I’m dreading the idea of waking up and going to work.
  • Yes, there are days where it’s boring and I feel like my time could be better spent else where.
  • Yes, there are days where I’m scrolling through Instagram and seeing everyone being an “entrepreneur” or “self made millionaires” with the caption saying “You can too! Escape the 9 to 5 prison. Swipe up or click the link in my bio!” and I’m just sitting there thinking “Is it really that bad?”

It really stayed in the mind all day which lead to me writing this post. I feel like it’s safe to say that everyone wishes they could be doing their own thing, on their own terms. However, to hate on 9 to 5 jobs to the degree that we do today is absurd. They are a necessary cog in our ever churning companies.

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The 9 to 5 job may not be the most glamorous job by today’s standards (as compared to the days of old), but it’s definitely still a job, and a job can benefit a lot of people in a lot of different ways. We should all look at it from a positive perspective. Look at the 9 to 5 job as the tree of stability, with it providing branches of opportunity to do calculated risks. The possibilities could be endless if you think about it in a positive way.

Writing Skills

Read 20-30 books by the end of the school year (accompanied with their own individual book reports, duh). That was a recurring goal during my elementary and middle school days. For some, this was a challenge. For others, it was a walk in the park. Being an only child with a protective, single parent, AND not being allowed to watch TV or play video games (except on the weekends, whenever I visited my dad, or when I was home alone), reading was honestly the most fun I could have consistently.

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Once I hit high school, it turned into We are going to read this book because it’s a classic in literature. That’s when we dissected the book down to it’s core. The symbolisms, meanings, imagery, motives, reasonings, writing style, vocabulary, sentence structure, and overall vibe of the story was put under the magnifying glass as we tried to understand everything the author has laid out infront of us.

Josh… We don’t want to hear your lifestory and why are you even talking about reading when you titled this post “Writing Skills”… Where are you going with this?

Can I be blunt on this subject? If you don’t have time to read, you don’t have the time (or the tools) to write. Simple as that.

Stephen King

I was reminded of this quote today and it got me thinking about all of this. Let’s continue…

Let me be honest with you. High school was the time I learned about Sparknotes. Not having to read a whole book that I wasn’t interested in and knowing all the concepts being asked at a fraction of the time/effort? Sign me up please! I can gurantee that I wasn’t the only one! But this wasn’t good because this was the exact moment in time when I stopped reading for fun. Actually, this was the time when I stopped reading entirely. I haven’t picked up a proper book “just ’cause” since (almost 11 years now)…

Dang, that’s a long time to not read but are we getting to the point Josh? You really are embracing your “Rambling” side…

Ok, ok! Here’s the point…

I’mma be as “blunt” as Stephen King… I’ve always sucked at writing. Doesn’t matter how much I’ve read. Doesn’t matter the teaching I’ve gone through over the years. It’s difficult for me to express myself through the written word. It takes me forever to begin. Even after I get started, I don’t know how to keep writing to any sort of meaningful length. It took me literally 11 hours today to get to this point, and if you actually saw how I managed to manifest all of this, you’d probably cringe.

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Now why I talked about reading for the first half of this post is this. A writer who doesn’t read is like a musician who doesn’t listen to music or a filmmaker who doesn’t watch films. Which makes sense. You can’t really be expected to do something well without first experiencing what made past work good to begin with.

Then I’m reminded of what everyone says about pretty much anything:

Practice makes perfect

It’s absolutely true. The more you work on something, the better you’re bound to get at it. Wanna get better at cooking? Cook more. Wanna get better at an instrument? Play that instrument more. Wanna get better at writing? Obviously, you gotta write more! And as we’ve learned from above, we gotta experience/understand all the past good work if we want to improve ourselves.

That’s my goal with this blog… To improve upon my writing skills, and in doing so, my ability to communicate will improve, my ability to express myself will improve, my passion for reading will be reignited (because if I truly want to improve in writing, reading is pretty much a necessity).

This begs the question, how much do you read? Let me know and feel free to recommend any books you’ve enjoyed over the years.

It is almost 2020, why a blog?

I’m on a quest to experience things I wouldn’t normally do

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Josh… Why are you starting a blog? Blogging’s dead. It’s a waste of money. You were never a good writer growing up. Your thoughts are all over the place. You can’t spell to save your life. Your grammar is awful. Hell, you can barely even speak properly half the time.

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So why a blog?

  • Because I want to get better at all of those shortcomings
  • Because I love the idea of having a creative outlet to express my thoughts freely and I feel like a lot of people can relate to what I think about
  • Because I want to put myself out there (as opposed to having a private diary and keeping to myself)
  • And lastly, because I want to see how far I can take this

You see, I’m on a quest to experience things I wouldn’t normally do… I’m starting small with writing a blog and will work up to swimming in the open sea (topic for another day).

Last year (November 2018), I broke out of my shell and randomly started streaming on Twitch. I had NO idea what I was doing at all, but my main goal was to capture those funny gaming moments I had with my friends. But now, a year later, and I have amassed a follower count of 250 (at the time of writing this post). I have a bunch of people who actually enjoy watching and interacting with me and my friends! It has been an enjoyable experience and I have my heart set on becoming a partner with Twitch in the future.

But Josh, blogging is hard. You don’t know anything about SEO. You don’t know how to captivate an audience through written word. There are so many nuances to blogging that you don’t even have a clue about.

  • What are you going to write about?
  • How are you going to have people find your blog?
  • Are those people who find your blog, actually going to enjoy the content?
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That’s all true, I honestly have no idea. But one thing I do know, is that I just have to start. If it’s anything like starting a stream, it’ll grow and evolve as I do. These things will come to me as I continue to learn and explore the world of blogging.

This blog will see many design changes as I try to find the best style that fits me. Stick around and let’s go on this journey together!